I love this prayer. I pray it often, share it regularly, and pray, too, that the desires of my heart truly be conformed to the sentiments it expresses.
Prayer for Ordering a Life Wisely
O, merciful God, grant that I may
and bring to perfect completion
whatever is pleasing to You for the praise and glory of Your name.
Put my life in good order, O my God.
Grant that I may know what you require me to do.
Bestow upon me the power to accomplish your will as is necessary and fitting for the salvation of my soul.
Grant to me, O Lord my God, that I may not falter in times of prosperity or adversity, so that I may not be exalted in the former, nor dejected in the latter.
May I not rejoice in anything unless it leads me to you;
May I not be saddened by anything unless it turns me from you.
May I desire to please no one but you,
Nor fear to displease anyone but you.
May all transitory things, O Lord, be worthless to me
And may all things eternal be ever cherished by me.
May any joy without you be burdensome for me
And may I not desire anything else besides you.
May all work, O Lord, delight me when done for your sake
And may all repose not centered in you be ever wearisome for me.
Grant unto me, O God, that I may direct my heart to you
And that in my failures I may feel ever remorse for my sins and never lose the resolve to change.
O Lord, My God, make me
submissive without protest,
poor without discouragement,
chaste without regret,
patient without complaint,
humble without posturing,
cheerful without frivolity,
mature without gloom,
and quick-witted without flippancy
O Lord, My God, let me
fear you without losing hope,
be truthful without guile,
do good without presumption,
rebuke my neighbor without haughtiness,
and -- without hipocrisy -- strengthen him by word and example
Give to me, O Lord God,
a watchful heart, which no capricious heart can lure away from you
a noble heart, which no unworthy desire can debase
a resolute heart, which no evil intention can divert
a stalwart heart, which no tribulation can overcome
a temperate heart, which no violent passion can enslave
Give to me, O Lord my GOd,
understanding of you
diligence in seeking you
wisdom in finding you
discourse ever pleasing to you
perseverance in waiting for you,
and confidence in finally embracing you.
Grant that with your hardships, I may be burdened in reparation here,
that your benefits I may use in gratitude along the way,
that in your joys, I may delight by glorifying you in the kingdom of heaven, you who live and reign, world without end.
--St. Thomas Aquinas